The importance of understanding sexual polarity and how maintaining this delicate balance is essential in all heterosexual and even in lesbian and gay relationships, in order to maintain mutual sexual attraction and romantic interest.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who is a lesbian. She is obviously the masculine one in her relationships and she tends to date very feminine women. The woman who is her ex, is very insecure and tends to bounce back and forth between her and other women she is dating, much like insecure heterosexual women tend to have lots of male orbiters in the background in case things go south with their primary male lover. In all successful heterosexual, lesbian and gay relationships, there is always one person who is more masculine, and the other is more feminine. Without this sexual polarity, there is a loss of sexual attraction and romantic interest. Without sexual polarity, both people become more like friends than lovers. I discuss the importance of behaving in ways that are congruent with your natural masculine or feminine essence no matter what your sexual preference is.
“In order to maintain sexual polarity, attraction and interest, men and women must act consistently congruent with their natural dominant masculine or feminine essence. In all successful heterosexual, lesbian or gay relationships, there is always one person who is more masculine and the other is more feminine. Heterosexual men who act or become unsure, indecisive and too weak to set healthy boundaries, stand up for themselves and what they want, and lose their focus on their purpose and mission in life, will cause their women to lose respect, interest and attraction for them. This leads to being friend-zoned. Heterosexual women who try to make all the decisions, control things and generally stop being, looking and dressing feminine, will turn their men off and cause them to lose interest in sex and romance. They then become more like roommates and friends instead of lovers. When you lose your connection, confidence and congruence with your natural essence, you will shortly thereafter lose the respect and attraction of your lover, and therefore, your relationship.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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